Especially shy men find it hard to approach women and ask for something or pay them a compliment. It's such a shame when they don't. Sharing their knowledge can be very enriching for others (the other sex included). Approaching women isn't as hard as you might think, provided both sides are open to a (even if brief) conversation. Women are also visual beings to a degree, and a good appearance helps make them want to be approached. They signal this through body language too, you just have to look and listen carefully.

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A shy man has several options that don't require him to approach women directly: he can make himself noticed through gestures, for example by picking up something she may have dropped. Shy men are often very timid and skittish and barely dare to put their feelings into words in front of a woman. Say it with flowers is the relevant motto here. When words fail a man, letting flowers do the talking is often a simple sign, even if it's just a single flower handed over as a gesture of respect.

A woman is immediately impressed and, in 80% of cases, wants further contact with a man who gives her a flower or several flowers. Flowers can carry a secret symbolism. For example: I admire you. I want to know more about you. I want to look into your eyes. I want to talk with you. I want affection from you.

 

Approaching Women - A Flirt Doesn't Have to Mean Anything More

Gentlemen, this will suit you: a little flirt on a street corner, at a sidewalk café or at the ice cream parlor can mean a brief moment of happiness for you. Since men are suspected of often not being very commitment-minded, a situation like this suits them. Because it doesn't necessarily mean that the woman looking you in the eye immediately wants more from you than a short chat before disappearing into the crowd. That also means you aren't obligated to do anything afterward. Such an encounter can definitely be thrilling. Eroticism is a subtle as well as sensual matter. Maybe it's only a brief interlude, and then you go your separate ways.

 

Approaching Women Is Something You Have to Learn

Gentlemen, please keep your standard lines like "Can I have your phone number? I lost mine!" in your pocket. Even if it may be tempting, it's far too cheap and easy a way to approach a woman. Make a little effort and show some creativity when approaching women. It's not as tricky as you think. A woman sees you and checks you out from head to toe, you can be sure of that. Some women prefer self-confidence, but there are also women who even value shyness. So both types of personality have a chance with the ladies.

What works when approaching women:

  1. Self-confidence
  2. Attentiveness
  3. Charm
  4. Creativity